I'm here because it is clear that I can't go out with anyone religious...I just can't imagine that anyone believes that crap...with that said I am fiercely independent I am financially sound I am first and foremost my sons mother I love my job I love my life but I think I could love it more with a partner in crime. I'm passionate about many things including animals,life in general, art, nature ...but above all else I don't take anything too seriously. I laugh, I joke, I can be juvenile, I like movies, roller coasters, hiking NYC...art...the list is endless. I am intolerant of stupidity, bigotry, bullies, close-mindedness, arrogance, vanity , narcissism ...I am looking for a Man ..one who can make me feel safe without acting like a Neanderthal, a man who is my equal (it's harder then you think) one who makes me laugh, who can match my wit, one who ignites my passion, one who is not self obsessed or a gym rat ... If you have no body fat or any jiggly bits then your outer shell is too important to you. I excersise for health... So I can live a long life not so I can have the body I had at 20... All parts of me are real , there is no fillers, Botox or things lifted... I had a 10 lb son but I had a C section... I have scars, I have flaws, I could lose a few but I'm happy with me...I am looking for someone with little baggage, no crazy exes, my one area of "shallowness" is I am looking for someone tall ish..it is nothing more then a preference please don't judge it ... I want to laugh, I want to talk, I want passion, I want someone to go to dinner with, drink cocktails with, go to museums and movies with, someone to kiss other then my kid!!!! Possibly someone to grow older with...so if any of that (and I know it's a lot) sounds good to you let me know....